Financial abuse happens in many households across the country and unfortunately, we know it happens in First Nations communities too.

Sometimes, the signs of financial abuse can be subtle and easy to miss; sometimes they start small and build over time.

Financial abuse can happen with your partner or within your broader family.

If you, a family member or friend are worried you may be in a financially abusive relationship, here are some questions to ask:

• Does your partner tell you what you can and can’t buy?
• Do they control all the money in the household?
• Does your partner look at your receipts when you go shopping? Or question you/make you feel bad when you’ve made a big purchase?
• Are you not allowed to work anymore?
• Has someone asked you to take out a loan or a new bank card for them?
• Does someone else take money out of your wallet or bank account for their own spending?
• Has your partner or family member gambled the household’s money?
• Do you get told off or threatened over what you do with your money?

These can all be signs of financial abuse. Help is always available for people in financially abusive relationships. If you, a friend or family member are unsure whether this may be you, consider speaking to a financial counsellor (numbers below).

Where to find help

The First Nations Foundation has lots of resources to help women who are suffering from financial abuse or have a friend or family member who may be. You can visit our Women’s Hub here.  

• If you’re in immediate danger: 000
• Lifeline: 13 11 14
• WIRE: 1300 134 130 (until 5pm) – Chat service also available.
• National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007
• Mob Strong Debt Help: 1800 808 488

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• Financial abuse prevention toolkit
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